Pam Ling (born April 21, 1968) is an American physician, best known as
a castmate on The Real World: San Francisco, the third season of MTV's
long-running reality television show.On the show, Ling was a Phi Beta
Kappa member from Harvard, an overachiever, and in her third year of
medical school. In the first few weeks of their stay in the house, she
was finishing up a difficult rotation. Like castmate Mohammed Bilal,
she was one of the more calm and low-key roommates, and was one of the
last roommates that Puck would agree to talk to during conflict
resolutions with the rest of the house. She became close with
castmates Pedro Zamora and Judd Winick, and the three became
inseparable, with Cory joining them halfway through their stay in San
Francisco.On the show, Ling was a Phi Beta Kappa member from Harvard,
an overachiever, and in her third year of medical school. In the first
few weeks of their stay in the house, she was finishing up a difficult
rotation. Like castmate Mohammed Bilal, she was one of the more calm
and low-key roommates, and was one of the last roommates that Puck
would agree to talk to during conflict resolutions with the rest of
the house. She became close with castmates Pedro Zamora and Judd
Winick, and the three became inseparable, with Cory joining them
halfway through their stay in San Francisco.She attempted to maintain
a long-distance relationship with her then-boyfriend Chris, and the
roommates surprised her by having him visit San Francisco on her
birthday, putting on a mock presentation of This is Your Life, with a
tuxedo-wearing Winick as the announcer, and her boyfriend as the final
person to appear. Unbeknownst to anyone, Winick had developed feelings
of his own for Ling, and after she would get home late at night from
work and fall asleep with a book across her lap and a pen in her hand,
Winick would turn off her bedside lamp, put the book away and cover
her up. Ling and Winick supported Zamora by attending his lectures
whenever they could.After the show ended, Ling and Chris broke up,
while her and Winick’s relationship moved beyond friendship. They
visited Zamora in his hometown of Miami as he was hospitalized and
their feelings deepened during their visits. On November 11, 1994, the
day after the last San Francisco "Real World" episode aired, Zamora
died. Ling and Winick began dating in 1995 and moved in together. They
announced their relationship at a Real World Reunion Special which
brought together the casts of the first four seasons. After dating for
five years, Winick proposed to Ling with a cartoon he made for the
occasion, and which he presented to her while wearing a gorilla suit.
The cartoon presented Ling with two choices to answer his proposal.
After she accepted his proposal, he summoned three singing Elvis
Presley impersonators. Winick and Ling married in a civil ceremony on
August 26, 2001. Writer Armistead Maupin spoke at their ceremony. As
of 2008, they have two children. Pam Ling Top Movies & Young Movies